Monday, 7 March 2016

Mexico

A meet up with these legends
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Van trips to find waves
Californian Sunset


Feeling like a Queen at the top of these Faery Falls
 
Mid Coast views



Crowded beach of Salyulita

Colourful Streets of Salyulita

Mexico, the second home of the bug




Guadalajara's coffee strip


Tortillaria production


Add a little spice

Ed and I, a lazy day by the beach


La Punta Sunset


Pacific Buddah vibes

Puerto Escondido




Puerto Escondido



Fresh (or not so fresh) Meat

Markets for fresh food, including cheap Chia seeds!


La Punta Streets

La Punta Streets and my favorite creperie


La Punta

Help these guys stay on the road

San Cristobal




Alice and I, San Cristobal


























Mexican Christmas Parade, no theme just dress up





Palenque home by the stream

A many hours spent here


Aqua Azul falls


Palenque ruins







Faery vibes a mist the Palenque jungle ruins





Christmas day spent at the falls with Gus
Boarder Crossing

Mexico - Time to get tropical


I continued south along the Californian coast keen to catch up with friends from home, in San Clemente.   I spent about a week immersed in the life of Californian pro surfers, shapers, artists, and photographers where the thought of success never seemed doubted.  Talent seemed installed at a young age.  The waves where small, but in perfect shape.   The company of those familiar faces was refreshing.  The ridiculous eight-lane highway made it a place I would never want to live.  I intended to stay longer but I missed the heat and with Mexico so close, it was time to move on.  The airport terminal was happily all I would see of Los Angeles.  Stew kindly drove me through that horrible traffic to set me off on what had finally arrived, my Central American adventures.  I stood in the air-conditioned terminal on that hard nylon white flooring tapping my unresponsive watch, wondering what the time was.  Little did I know, at that stage time would now be irrelevant. 

I had heard many good things about Mexico but I had little idea on where I would go.  One of the surfers I met in California was from Sayulita, so that’s where I started.  Flying over the country was a view of mountainous terrain, stunningly covered in a dense lush tropical jungle.  Mexico was a hit of colour, flavour and heat.  Exactly what I was searching for!  After checking out Sayulita and its surrounds the surf went flat and I was soon craving to find some decent swell.   With waves on my mind I hopped through Mexico City straight to Puerto Escondido where solid barreling waves were to the other extreme, but I couldn’t complain. 

Pacific Buddha hostel in La Punta would be my home until I could drag myself away from its paradise bubble.  It had been around 3months of travelling on my own, meeting up with friends here and there and travellers briefly in passing.  It was Pacific Buddha and its owners Ange and Tyler that made the perfect abode where other travellers alike, mostly solo voyagers, couldn’t help but park up for a long stay.  It was a small hostel at the quiet end of the long stretch of white beach.  The days easily slipped by with activities or by doing not much at all.  The mornings spent surfing or doing yoga.  The middle of the day was ridiculously hot so it was mostly water activities or minimal movement in the shade.  Each day when it was that time for the sun to sink into the horizon behind the Pacific abyss, everyone would venture over the warm sand heated from the days sun to watch this simple beauty.  It was my favorite time of day where I got the name of being a Mermaid, body surfing and playing amongst the waves.   Id float embraced by the ocean, taking in the view of the curved sky as the flamed light faded.  The nights were then filled with good yarns, communal cook ups, group dinning outs, live salsa nights, and swimming in a warm phosphorescence lake where every move was trailed by sparkling light.  One night we were even lucky enough to witness a meteor shower.  We lay in the soft sand under the dark sky.  Every few seconds a trail of shooting stars would catch our eye.  I become very ill for a short time but unlike my time in Morocco, I had what felt like an adopted family to ease the burden.  I laughed frequently, realizing this was the main thing missing travelling alone and that made me smile more.   I had happily isolated myself, as I’m not one to travel with people just for the sake of company.  But good company had come along, so I decided to travel on with them continuing to laugh.   It was hard to leave this happy bubble and we doubted if we’d find somewhere as nice but there was so much more to see.  As we packed the taxi to leave, it was like the sky began to cry with the first sign of rain in months. 

Next stop was San Cristobal, a small, colourful colonial city where I could get a decent coffee fix.  It’s the small places that capture my heart though and El Pachan in the Palenque Jungle came very close to my La Punta favorite.  Here the days also drifted by. Angus and I stayed for 10days when most have come and gone in two.  With a simple grass roof cabana and verandha surrounded by gingers and a flowing stream, howler monkeys sounded in the distance, a faery like waterfall in walking distance, and the option of only two restaurants where it didn’t take long to feel like a local.  Things were pretty bliss.  Christmas day was spent here.  Part of the day I spent sitting at the base of the falls feeling the energy of the jungle wash over me.  Then like any other xmas day it revolved around food and good company, always a good day with a three crepe day! 

When I left home I thought I just wanted to travel.  The more I travel, the more I realize what was missing.  Each place has had a different purpose.  Europe was a time for myself, to visit faery places I missed, to refresh good memories and to visit old friends.  America was a place to connect with nature and continue a faery journey.  Mexico was a new culture, surf and of course Oaxaca turned out to have a deep faery history.  Though, all have had an underlying common spark, apart from faeries.  It may sounds a little cliché but I’ve found myself on a spiritual journey and it’s been refreshingly beautiful.  That’s why it seemed fitting to do a traditional Mexican soul cleanse in the jungle, called a Temezcal.  This involved connecting with the Sky, Earth, Water, and Fire Gods using a yurt type structure that would be pitch black.  In the centre would be fire heated volcanic rocks, steamed to create a sauna effect.  It was performed in a clearing of the jungle just after sunset, when the fireflies would come to life.  With each stage we gave thanks.  The Sky we connected with North, East, South and West.  The Earth was our grounding.  The Water was our femininity.  Fire connected with masculinity.  As a group, we sat in a circle around the yurt centre, sweat soaking our bodies.  With each stage more rocks were added and the heat grew nearly unbearable.  The drumming and chants echoed louder and the energies flourished.  Feeling my increased strength I couldn’t help but sway to the rhythm.  A smile settled on my face, uncontrollably stretched from ear to ear, invisible to anyone else in the dark.  I felt like every part of my insides was smiling too.  In that moment, I felt a strength and happiness that consumed me entirely.  Little did I know, Angus had felt like he’d been through an exorcism and was lying limp and exhausted on the ground.  We all emerged from the tent, sweaty bodies embracing one another for the shared energies.  I couldn’t help but stare at the sky above the jungle clearing knowing its true what they say.  The universe will provide.   

It was time to move on from Palenque and with the festive season everything was booking out.  I wanted to head east and see the turquoise waters of Lake Bacalar, and feel the salt of the Caribbean coast.  I wasn’t ready to leave Mexico but I also didn’t want to be swarmed by partying American tourists and feel the worst of the holiday inflation.  The Christmas and New Year break is by far the worst time to travel and with that, it made sense to skip into Guatemala.   Since I’ve left, I realize it’s hard to beat Mexico in Central America.  Sure, like other Central American countries, efficiency is not a priority but they work long hours.  It seemed like work and lifestyle could easily co-exist as they blended at their own pace.  Random speed bumps that protruded from the roads seemed more dangerous than safe, but the transport systems were excellent and made exploring the countries vast landscape possible in whatever direction you choose.  Its wise to avoid some areas but I felt safe and the locals were always up for a chat.  Mexico has a lot to offer.  It is a place rich in art and history, of beautiful rhythm and people.  Any place where shirt and shoes are optional, where there is that infectious salsa beat, and the guys can dance, that’s a place I want to be.  Yes, its wealthier neighbour has an influence, but a culture so rich and vibrant could never die out, and should never die out.   

Wednesday, 18 November 2015

America - From forest to streets and home with the faeries

I walked one foot in front of the other, walking, exploring as I always do.   Then the air was different.  It was cooler, fresher, but it was more than that.  With each breath there was a feeling.  It was like the feeling you get when a friend embraces you, or when you raise your head out of the ocean after that first dive in.  The feeling of when your dad gives you a cheeky grin of a joke only you know, or when you see a familiar face in a crowd of strangers.  As I walked from the city into the depths of the forest the trees towered above me, the ground became dense with fern and moss, and the dappled light shone through the leaves.  I listened, and to my surprise there was the distinct sound of waves crashing on the shoreline.  Although, it wasn’t waves, it was the wind in the treetops.  In that moment, in that feeling, I knew I was home again. 

So I though of ‘home’.  What is home?  Where is it?  Can you have more than one?  For some, home is where you grew up, it’s a location, or a structure with a roof.  Perhaps, it’s that feeling when you’re absolutely besotted with the one you’re with.  No matter where you are, if that person is by your side then that’s all you need.  They become that warm and cozy fireplace, that feeling of content and protection, they are your release that you can be completely yourself as if walking through the front door.  Like Edward Sharp sings, “home is whenever I’m with you”.  Home is not a feeling of pure familiarity or attachment, but a feeling from deep within.  When you get that feeling, you just know when you’re home.  For me, Australia is too far away, it will always be home but I can’t take it with me.  I used to have that ‘love home’ but then it felt like it was burnt to the ground, a rainstorm soaked the ashes, and then maybe a cyclone come through to knocked down any remaining structure.  I’ve tried to build other ‘love homes’ but maybe they were made of feathers or sticks and the big bad wolf found it laughable.  I need a home that I can go to wherever I am in this world, and on that forest walk I realized.  Mother Nature she stole my heart.

I wanted to come to America to be within nature.  I’m not sure why of all places I chose America.  I don’t even know exactly what I expected to see or do, I just knew that’s where I was going.  The thing I love most about nature is the intricacies, the pure beauty, and the feeling of being so small, man so incomparable to anything nature has to offer.  On my journey I met chipmunks, prairie dogs, elk and deer as I climbed to the top of Rocky Mountains.  I drove along winding autumn mountain roads that looked like leprechauns and elves had been dancing through the trees, carelessly throwing their gold faery treasure all over the mountainside.  I could imagine they put their best golden treasures on display before packing them up for the winter.  I hiked through dense forest where my favorite colour of green was as far as the eye could see.  I stood at the base of great waterfalls with the mist and forest air rushing over my face.  I soaked in natural hot springs, and reconnected to my spiritual self at a hippy commune.  In the depths of the forest the yellow leaves on the black branches looked like faeries glowing suspended midflight.  At days end of exploring the giant redwood forests I was shaking from adrenaline, my mind trying to comprehend the indescribable beauty my eyes had seen.  I was seeking nature, and Mother Nature welcomed me with a huge soul hug. 

I followed the ridiculously winding road through the last of the forest to be spat out on the west coast highway 1.  After months away from the ocean, I’d finally made it back to the Pacific.  I dreamed of blue water and sunny days driving the California coast.  Instead, cold and fog and a dark ocean thick with kelp greeted me.  The coastline was a rugged beauty, but it appeared to be trying to imitate the Great Ocean Road and didn’t quite have the finishing touch.  It was like seeing the same dress worn on lady California, but it didn’t hug the right curves, the hem didn’t float as freely, and her style just didn’t do it justice unlike lady Australia.  After being away from the water for so long I thought I would be eager to dive in but it just didn’t seem enticing.  If there are seals in there I know it’s going to be freezing.  I guess it can be hard to please an Australian when it comes a coastline.  My first night on the coast I thought I would sleep in the car just like I would back home.  Except here it was a hire car, no cosy van set up.   It was also a foreign land that grew darker and scarier to sleep in the middle of know where on my own.  Ignoring the slight fear in my gut I curled up on the hard floor of the boot of the station wagon sharing the space with my backpack, as this was the only place I could lie flat.  I put layer upon layer of clothes, jackets, tights, socks, beanie and gloves and the remaining clothes I attempted to use for padding.  I had one pillow and a light blanket I “borrowed” from a hotel spare cupboard I stayed in the night before.  In the middle of the night I woke to poring rain, horrible pain in my hip from laying on my side but no room to lay on my back, and I was absolutely freezing.  I folded the blanket into a small square so there were more layers and curled up into a tighter ball.  There was no other way I could get any warmer.  The next night I found the cutest BnB fit for a queen with heating and didn’t want to leave the room. 


In between the forest and coast I visited adorable towns and cities.  I experienced the culture with a little of the east, to the centre, to the west.  The west being my favorite, where there is a clear air of creativity.  Unknowingly, I chose to visit all the states where marijuana is legal.  Along the way I was welcomed into the homes of friends of friends with amazing generosity.  I often found myself giggling as I’d hear accents or phrases I’ve only heard in movies.   As a Dietitian I frustratingly now understand why America makes my job so hard.  As I roamed the streets I met some lovely people and crazy ones!  I was often in conversation with people on the street whether I was listening or not.  I found if they wanted to know something, they would ask despite common social barriers.  I felt like everyone had an opinion they were trying to depict.  Whether it was expressed in conversation, or blatant yelling on the street, signs, or fashion.  The public transport was also an experience.  There were loud conversations, people talk to whoever is next to them, the bus driver even gets involved yelling down to the back of the bus, sometimes the whole bus is involved in one big discussion.  Coming from London where you could hear a pin drop on the tube and everyone is politely in their own bubble, this was quite the contrast.  The novelty wore off though and I was often wishing I could hear my own thoughts again and if I had an opinion I would happily keep it to myself.  In saying that, there were a lot of good things about being in such an environment.   I could tell they thrive for information.  They want to learn from each other.  I could spend whole days in the book stores as the range of literature was astounding, including a wide selection of faery books.  I had some really interesting conversations and found them to be very open and generous.  I can see why as a nation they do so well at acting and writing, because they can tell a good story and they’re not shy.  I could feel the ambition on the street, particularly in New York.  There is a distinct feeling that you dream big.  Unfortunately, I could imagine perhaps a lot of the homeless might have been some of those big dreamers and lost it all.  America has a huge influence on the world and with that comes the internal influence for free thinking, ambition, and opinions.   Unfortunately, despite a willingness to learn I found there are only small minorities that actually experience and travel outside the American bubble.  It’s a grand and interesting place I actually didn’t intent to spend much time, but for it to have such an impact on the world how could you not get drawn in to see what it’s all about.